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Trust me, I get it. Unless it's monumentally boring, having a special love for his car is probably the most disgusting thing you can think of. After all, what kind of person forms an attachment to bits of metal, plastic, and oil? But you see, us car guys know that it exists and that it's real. Many of us have experienced it. So is there something wrong with us?
They all have flaws and flaws. But as far as your special love for his car, it's natural. Humans become attached to people and things because those people and things satisfy certain needs that they have, whether material or spiritual. I'm not saying you fall in love with your car because it gets you from A to B. You love it for the memories you associate with it, for how it once made you feel.
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And that is the most natural human behavior. Now some people say that this should only apply to other human beings or at least other living things. But that's not necessarily true, because at the end of the day it's all about biology. We really don't have much to say, it's a different and normal feeling to have a special love for his car. No matter how much poets and romantics try to convince you that it's a matter of soul and spirit, science shows that falling in love and forming attachments are, in essence, biochemical reactions to external stimuli.
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When you fall in love with a girl, it's not her beautiful face or her swaying body that causes it. It is the secretion of certain chemicals into the bloodstream that trigger characteristics that result in the most famous human quirks. Furthermore, your brain subconsciously evaluates that girl's features and characteristics against her needs and ideals, accumulated throughout her life depending on her genome and epigenome, and decides if that person is the one to successfully address them. Meanwhile, your conscious mind is busy looking at the details and features that make you feel positive feelings.
What all of that means is that you can have the same "emotions" about your pet, your phone, and indeed, it is possible to have a special love for his car. Yes, even objects can trigger that condition in us as long as they click with certain conscious or unconscious conditions that we have within us. In fact, the word on the sidewalks of science is that in a few decades there will be robots that will take better care of us physically and emotionally than any human.
However, for me, forming a special love for his car It's mostly about memories, what that car reminds me of...or who it reminds me of. It's not just that we get used to them. Most of us experience our first kiss in a car, our first cigarette, or a guy's first trip. It is natural for us to develop feelings for them. Just make sure those feelings don't get out of hand!